Going Shoeless

I have been taking full advantage of the unusually "cooler" weather for the Midwest in July, and playing outdoors as much as possible with my baby boy, Kestan, and my husband, Chris.

The other night, we found ourselves at a new park. They had lots of playgrounds, slides, and swings to choose from. Kestan likes climbing around, but this particular night he was more interested in walking and taking new paths.

On our journey around the park we let Kestan lead the way. Suddenly, he stopped in his tracks, looked down at his feet and with a "ah ah" and a point, we knew this meant he wanted his shoes off.

My initial reaction to this was, "Oh, no, there might be glass." But, again, Kestan pointed to his shoes. He wasn't budging 'til those shoes were removed. Daddy helped him step out of his plastic crocs and we thought we were ready to roll. But, no, Kestan proceeded to point to daddy's feet - "ah ah". Daddy obliged and happily kicked off his sandals.

Kestan pointed to my shoes. "Ah, ah." I hesitated. My thoughts continued, "What about glass? Or rocks? "Ah, ah." Or what will the other parents think as I let my child run barefoot in a public park?" "Ah, ah!"

In that moment I realized, although there are times when we need to be cautious, in this particular instance, my baby boy was trying to tell me something. I looked down the path. There wasn't any glass, not even a rock. Was I going to let fear keep me from enjoying a "down-to-earth" experience with my family?

Off the shoes went and for several minutes we let Kestan lead us up and down new paths. We only stopped briefly to play on the hopscotch some kids drew with sidewalk chalk. (I haven't played that in years and man, was it fun!)
After that, we made our way to a wooden bridge. The feeling of the smooth, cool wood under our feet was wonderful, and of course, Kestan noticed it right away. We also learned that the bridge made a drumming sound as we walked across and it echoed off the water below. We were making music with our feet! And we played there walking, running and stomping our feet until Kestan decided he was done. With a point and "ah, ah", we put our shoes back on and continued on our journey.

I believe children are our greatest teachers. I think Kestan intuitively knew that his parents needed to chill out and get reconnected and grounded to the earth. Being barefoot allowed us to do just that. We enjoyed being in the present moment, and because we were able to face our fears of doing something "out of the ordinary", we all stumbled across something new and got to experience that together.

I am grateful that we were aware enough to recognize that Kestan was telling us something. He brought us all together as a family by allowing us to be ok with getting dirty, by taking us on new paths, and by reminding us of the beauty in the simple things.

Your Personal Reflection: What lessons in life have you learned from children? When is the last time you kicked off your shoes in the park and touched the earth? (Or played hopscotch!?) Take some time this week to go shoeless, to get your feet dirty, and to play in the sun with the ones you love.

Source of Inspiration

Father's Day came and went and I had the intention of writing a blog entry in honor of my beautiful husband, Chris. He is an amazing father and the gift of parenthood has really transformed him into a more playful, more connected and more embracing-of-living-life-NOW kind of dude. He recognizes what a gift our little boy is, and watching the two of them bond, learn from, and love each other brings me great joy.

Not only is Chris a wonderful "da da", he is the greatest partner I could ever ask for. In order to illustrate just how mindful, compassionate and wise he is, I'd like to share an excerpt from a recent email he sent me in regards to my struggles of wanting to manifest my life purpose on a deeper level.

He says, "You are a great, gentle nurturer. You are perfectly suited to dive deep with people. So, light-hearted projects are OK for you? Or are you wanting deepness that comes from working with, say people with cancer, like those you engaged with in the past?

I guess what I'm thinking about right now is, 'Who are these people looking for a creative life coaching experience.' I know I could use a coach from time-to-time, but never commit the time for this. Are there a lot of people like me out there and how do you reach them the same way you do in person?

I love your approach of the online thing and I want you to not think much. Just throw stuff out there that comes from yourself just diving in and not questioning much. It will be from that place that people who are like me will see the authenticity in the work you do and be inspired to take the class. I might be wrong, but the stuff you have been talking about lately is not just teaching how to knit a stitch. It's about pushing self to feel and then do and do and do, so you must do then do then do. Do the do when you make a pod cast. Do the title of your class with the style of free form thinking - couple of words, done put it out there...walk away. A day, a week, a month later while resting or taking a walk, new words will hit you for the next pod cast or class.

To be free to make up this stuff you're doing, you need to continue to do things you have never done before. Then, channel that experience into your work. Vacation from your son, from me or and whatever it takes to break, break, break, routine. Don't worry, breaking routine will become your routine and that will fuel your future manifestations."Thank you, Chris, for being a great source of support and inspiration in my life.

Your Personal Reflection: Think of one person in your life that has offered you a great source of support and inspiration. Take the time to write a letter to them sharing what they mean to you.